Three Week Wrap
I know it's been awhile... I just felt like a lot of things were happening and I didn't want to jink any of it. Basically nothing's changed, everyday I'm kind of up and down thinking that things are finally turning around for me.
Work: This really is not the place for me. I always knew that this job is a few years behind of where I should be... but had it in my head that after a few months, I could use connections here to get me a real job - with responsibilities and a decent paycheck. But I am bored senseless. I do nothing. There's the occasional envelope to stuff and stamp, but that's about it. My friends say it can't be that bad: I've got a Tivo at my desk to record any show I want to watch. But a few episodes of The Bachelor, House and 30 Rock do not make up for the fact that I am bored SENSELESS. And neither does the half-hour I spend flirting with a 25-year old guy that isn't interested in me. (Sad that this is the most entertaining part of my work day! Maybe once in a while we can add some spice to this place alone on a Friday afternoon... but I think that window has passed!)
One day when I was really beating myself up about this job that college interns are clamoring to get, I received a call from a potential employer. There was a job I was this close to getting last year. After months of interviewing and mock presentations, the position went to an internal candidate... because that's their policy. Turns out the internal candidate is quitting to follow her fiance somewhere. They didn't call to tell me the job was mine if I wanted it... but that they'd like me to re-apply. Kinda good and kinda disappointing. I had another great meeting with the woman who liked me so much the first time around... but she told me they are talking to a few other new candidates but I'm still on the top of her list. I want to think positive, but I have a feeling we're going to have a repeat of last year. She told me it'll be a few weeks.
So I'm sitting here... waiting on one job. It's like dating... waiting for a guy to finally come around and realize his feelings. And as everyone knows, you're supposed to distract yourself. With other job interviews, with other guys. That's all the advice I keep getting.
oh gee -- it's that easy?? Let me just make some phone calls to high-level executives. I'll just dial up some guys I know and date around. I'm not in a position with this current job to get some good interviews. This one job is a rare opportunity. And remember how easily I took to Jdate?
Maybe it's the "Thirty is the New Twenty" attitude, but I'm not ready to crack yet. Yes, if I don't get it... I'll have one really really down day. But surprisingly, things with this guy I met on my birthday (a good sign, right?) are working out... pretty well, I think. No very well. I'm just still kind of amazed... cause I think he really likes me... and I'm feeling the same way. We didn't sleep together right away, and when we did - I think we were both really comfortable. Because it was good. Really good. Unusual for a first time, no? I'll go into more detail about him in an upcoming post.
Sitting here doing nothing in this job is exhausting.